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My wife is of the old school so to speak, she believes that boys should be boys and girls do as they please. When I asked her to give her thoughts on these stories she stated that any wife that would allow, support and encourage a husband to dress as a girl in the family group would most likely rather be loved by a woman.

Now we can get to some of the questions that bother me.

How do you tell your children, family and friends about yourself? Do you just blurt it out and try to make them understand that it is your way of life, in other words force yourself on them or do you let them see you dressed as if by accident and then try to explain?

My neighbors are of the low brow class, they wouldn't understand no matter what I said. You must know some like that. How do you explain yourself to them when they poke fun at you or call you queer and then tell others so they can have a big laugh at your expense? What do you do when they refuse to let their children associate with yours because their Dad is a nut and should be locked up? Children outside the family can be more cruel than adults, how do you explain to them so they will understand?

If you dress up like you say and go out in public and someone reads you what do you say while they call a cop?

How does your wife feel when some of her very close friends don't talk to her anymore because of you?

What would you do if your son decided he wanted to dress as a girl? Maybe your daughter would like to dress as a boy, bind her breasts flat, talk, walk and have a butch hair cut? Would you encourage these patterns and do all in your power to help them in their new roles?

I would like to have complete freedom to dress as a female whenever I want and not have to run and hide whenever the children come around or there is a knock at the door. I live for the day I can be accepted for what I am and not be ashamed to face anyone or fear that my family will be shunned because of me. I know deep inside that if I live to be a hundred, I'll never see that day.

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